... fortunate enough to have memories from a very early age. Although these earliest memories are simple vignettes that capture moments in time, hindsight has allowed me to see my BDSM interests already at play. A precocious and over-achieving child, I was an insatiable reader. By the age of eleven I had come across the writings of Anne Rice. Within a month I had consumed her entire literary output to that point, and began on her pseudonym, Anne Rampling. Thusly I discovered the book Exit To Eden which gave me the terminology for many of the images and thoughts already in my head. I now knew I was not alone. That other people felt and thought the same way that I did. It was a revelation.
I continued to avidly read anything I could get my hands on that involved BDSM, and was fortunate enough to come across some excellent primers such as Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns and Jay Wiseman's SM 101. In my teen years I was searching for anyone willing to engage in the things that I wanted to try. At nineteen I found the public scene and never looked back.
I spent much of my early twenties traveling throughout Canada attending events, workshops, social gatherings, fetish events, and anything else Kink related that I could find. This afforded me priceless opportunities to not just gather knowledge and skills for hotter and more varied play, but also to meet people and garner insight into different ways that people within this lifestyle can interact.
This lifestyle is part of who I am, so this career choice was natural. After all, I had spent years developing my skills and gathering my knowledge, furnishing my dungeon, and amassing my toys. It is what I love, and this was simply the next logical step. After all, if you could spend your days creating a fantasy world for yourself and others to live in, even temporarily, wouldn't you?
At the same time I endevour to give back to the community. I spent over two years heading a local educational group that gave monthly informational nights, and still do my best to give workshops and talks to the community whenever opportunity arises. I continue to travel to various events and workshops to gain new skills, techniques, ideas and insights from other players and educators.
Website 1: http://www.ladyrowan.ca
Location: Regina - Saskatchewan
- Adult Babies
- Anal Play
- CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)
- Foot Worship
- Forced Feminization
- Sensory Deprivation
- Strap On Training